You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. To just see ourselves as support to our husband's "noble" ambitions. I hope it all works out for you. In some cases you can just simply live together with differing religions. All the other stuffв is crap. So marrying a doctor might be ideal for me.
You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. Fell in love with his passion for his love for neurology. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. Eventually you will get engaged and married and have babies and buy a house together. Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. What part of SoCal are you in. Your man is becoming a doctor, and while he's still a resident carving his way into the field, his off days will be few and far between. I can say this. Nothing less will do.
As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. I do not text or call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, but generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace. If we do, I will be back to share my experiences. Maybe you do, too. That settles it for me. And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs. Of course my parents love each other very much and would not choose another spouse, which is why her response caught me off guard.
Of course we are talking abt kids and marriage all the time. You are too young to deal with this. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. I'm a first year medical student and met my boyfriend in college when he was in med school now in his residency. She is going to dump you. She probably has not studied the real truths behind Mormonism and thinks her beliefs are the only way to become a God while living eternally with family in the life hereafter. Everything we do when we are together seems to be pre-planned and must be executed just so, right down to unexpectedly turning off the lights at And I can relate to the walking on eggshells feeling when they are home. A shitty sex life, potentially.