I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever.




He completely flipped the switch. Many hour days and sometimes 10 days straight without a day off. It can't be antiMormon. That being sais, just be honest. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime.
I know it will get better over time. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. She's really attractive, too. Mine was in California, back in the 70s. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. Plus I just quit my medical interpreting job last month.
This means holding hands while walking around, or even kissing. As for deciding to marry someone who is not mormon, here is how I made the decision. I mean lots of his friends from residency have girlfriends or wives and make it work. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. Basically nothing like reality. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone.